Make It Yours: How to Customise Your Engagement and Wedding Rings
Lilac sapphire engagement ring set in gold
Choosing your engagement or wedding ring is a big moment. It marks a promise, a future and a story that is yours alone. That is why so many couples want to customise engagement ring designs rather than choose something already made. At Simon Wright Jewellery in London, we specialise in creating pieces that feel personal from the first sketch to the final polish. This guide walks you through the many ways you can shape a customised ring into something that reflects who you are as individuals and as a couple.
Why Customisation Matters
A ring you have a hand in designing carries meaning that goes beyond the metal or stones. It becomes a reminder of a moment, a message or an idea only the two of you share. With thoughtful engagement ring customisation, you can create something that looks and feels right for everyday wear while still standing out. The same applies when you work with us to customise your wedding ring. The options are wide and flexible, whether you want something minimal or something full of detail.
At Simon Wright Jewellery, we work closely with clients looking for bespoke engagement rings in London. Every detail matters, and every choice can be shaped to you.
How Can Engagement and Wedding Rings Be Customised?
Add Stones for Colour and Character
One of the simplest ways to customise rings is to add stones. Accent diamonds can frame your centre stone, create a subtle sparkle or form a pattern along the band. Sapphires, rubies or emeralds bring colour and personal symbolism. For example, if you want a splash of blue, a sapphire and diamond ring is a popular option that feels both classic and modern.
Couples who customise wedding ring designs often choose stones that complement an engagement ring without overpowering it. Others prefer something more individual, like scattered accent stones or a single hidden gem on the inside of the band.
These small touches can help shape not just a customised engagement ring but a set of customised wedding rings that work together.
Engraving: Tell a Story in a Few Words
Few details make a ring feel as personal as engraving. Whether you want initials, a date or a short message, ring engraving adds meaning in a quiet, lasting way. Many couples ask what can be placed inside a ring, and the answer is simple: almost anything that fits.
Along with text, you can also add engraved patterns such as scroll work, leaves or geometric lines. These designs can sit on the inside or outside of the band, and give the ring a more crafted, detailed feel.
We work with clients looking for engraved ring ideas and help guide them through placement or font choices. Some prefer subtle engraving techniques that keep the message or pattern hidden. Others use more visible designs to highlight something important to them. Engravings inside wedding rings are a nice way to mark an anniversary or important milestone.
If you decide to customise your engagement ring, engraving is the step that ties the whole design back to you.
Add Milgrain for Vintage Texture
Milgrain is a classic technique that adds tiny beaded edges to a ring. It is one of the simplest ways to add texture without overwhelming the design. Many people wonder what milgrain is on a ring or wonder if it suits modern styles. The short answer is yes. Milgrain can frame gemstones, mark the edges of a band or add a vintage touch to an otherwise minimal piece.
If you love delicate detail, you might enjoy a milgrain band ring. It is a subtle detail, but one that makes a ring feel crafted by hand.
Shape the Band to Fit Your Style
The band, also known as the ring shank, does more than hold the stone. It affects comfort, balance and the overall look of the piece. When you customise ring designs with us, we explore different ring band shapes to find what fits both your lifestyle and your aesthetic.
A straight band keeps the design clean and simple. A tapered band narrows as it reaches the stone, drawing the eye toward the centre. A split band creates an open, airy look that feels elegant without adding bulk. Curved or shaped bands can help your wedding ring sit neatly beside your engagement ring.
These small decisions make a big difference. They affect how the ring feels day-to-day and how the full set works together. This is one of the most effective ways to shape a customised ring into something that feels genuinely yours.
Explore Claw Styles for the Perfect Setting
The claws holding your stone may seem like a small detail, but they shape the personality of a ring. When you explore ring claw styles, you’ll find round claws that soften the look, pointed claws that add definition and double claws that create symmetry. Some clients also ask about how the different types of ring claws affect durability. We guide you through those decisions, so your ring looks beautiful and feels secure.
Getting these details right ensures a truly customised wedding ring or engagement ring that stands apart from standard designs.
Adjust Profiles for Everyday Comfort
The profile of a ring describes how high or low the setting sits. High profiles allow more light to reach the stone and create a taller silhouette. Low profiles sit closer to the finger and are often preferred by people with active lifestyles. When choosing ring profiles, comfort is as important as appearance.
A well-chosen profile ensures your rings feel natural on your finger from the first day you wear them.
Bring Everything Together Into Your Own Design
When you customise your engagement ring, you start with your story. Then you choose the stones, metal, shape and details that feel right. When you later customise your wedding ring, you bring everything together, creating a pair that works in harmony.
Some couples want perfectly matching designs. Others choose contrast, such as a textured wedding band paired with a polished engagement ring. There is no right answer, only the answer that feels like yours.
Because we specialise in bespoke engagement rings in London, you can expect personal guidance at every step. You can also expect a calm, thoughtful process where sketches, models and design conversations help you shape rings you will wear for the rest of your lives.
Start Your Custom Ring Journey
Whether you want clean lines, vintage detail, hidden messages or bold stones, custom work allows you to shape something that feels personal and lasting. From the first moment you decide to customise rings, you begin creating something that will carry meaning far longer than trends ever do.
If you are ready to explore your options, Simon Wright Jewellery is here to help you design customised engagement rings and wedding bands with care and craft. Every piece is made in our London workshop, and every detail is shaped with you in mind. Get in touch to find out more.
A ring is more than metal and stones. It marks a commitment. Make it your own.
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